Promises, Promises

Why do your promises get broken? I'm sick of having the same conversations, getting the same answers and landing with the same outcome time and time again. If these promises were truly made from the heart, things wouldn't be like this. A friend once said "if someone cares, they wouldn't put you through the pain and watch you suffer. If someone really cares, they'd not put you through that pain in the first place". Think about it. I'm a forgiving, gullible person. If you look up the meaning of Gullible in the dictionary, I'm sure there'd be a picture of me just sitting there, believing everything, as I always do. I've been decent. I've been honest. I've said how it hurts to have the trust we've built up over our time together torn down before my very eyes. This isn't enough apparently. So. I'll make this simple. You need help. You say there's no reason to what you do, that it's habit. Well so is alcoholism, drug addiction, substance misuse. All of these can help you to lose those close to you. So get help. I'm willing to help but that's not good enough, so I'll help you get professional help. This is the only thing that might help us out of this spiral. If you're not willing to try this for the sake of us, our relationship, the life we've built then I think we've reached a fork in the road where we must travel our separate ways. It breaks my heart even thinking about this but I can't be the one who keeps being torn down, used, lied to. I can't take it anymore.